Cell phone etiquette hot topic for youth and in schools
By Eric Wagner, 14, and Dennis Bao, 11.
ATTENTION ALL PARENTS!
Cell Phone Concern:
We need your help to eliminate cell phone use during the school
day. The use (and then confiscation) of cell phones has become
a major distraction in the classroom, which in turn, interferes
with the teaching and learning process. I realize how important
it is as a parent to be in communication with your child, and
the convenience cell phones bring. However, the use of cell phones
during the school day is not only a distraction, it is prohibited
by the Marquette Area Public Schools Board Policy 5136.
–– Notice sent home to parents from Marquette Senior
High School Principal Bob Anthony
It’s obvious to anyone that cell phones have become more
common in society. According to Pew Internet Research, 45
percent of 12 to 17-year-olds own cell phones. It has also
become more
common to have younger and younger kids getting cell phones.
As with other things that have quickly become common, there
are problems that need to be dealt with. One of the perceived
problems
is the different ways older and younger people use cell phones.
To adults, it may seem that people in their twenties and
younger are using their cell phones way too much. The younger
people
may disagree or feel that it does not matter.
Kelly Tyburski of Marquette has not allowed her son Kyle,
who is twelve, to have a cell phone. She believes that younger
people
use cell phones more than adults do and perhaps too casually.
“
I think when adults are using the cell phones they’re using
them to call home or they’re calling for a purpose,” she
said. “I think when children are using cell phones they
might be calling somebody who’s right down the street or
they may be calling someone who’s standing within a few
feet of them…so I think it’s more of a novelty
for kids to use cell phones.”
Kyle admits that adults seem to be more practical about cell
phone use.
“
Teenagers just use them to talk to their friends anytime they
want to and adults normally just use it when they really need
to use it, like in emergencies and stuff,” He said.
Kim Jameson of Marquette, a mother of three, sees teenagers
using cell phones all of the time, either texting or talking
on them.
She feels that her generation uses them because they really
need to get a hold of someone, rather than on a whim. The
heavy use
of cell phones in her children causes her to have some other
concerns.
“
I am a little worried about the talk about cell phones and microwaves
and how the excessive use of cell phones can cause brain tumors…especially
in children who have a thinner skull,” she said. “That’s
a little worrying to me and I would be happy to see more research
on that. Especially when I see my cell phone bill and I see my
daughter has been on there for 2,000 minutes and I’ve
been on for 50.”
Some say that youth are at a greater risk because they use
their cell phones while doing other things. James Yelland,
thirteen,
of Marquette, said he has witnessed as many as a dozen people
(in their) late teens or early 20’s who were paying
more attention to who they were talking to on their cell
phone rather
than what they were doing.
“
I would say that the older people may be a bit more cautious
about when they use their cell phones,” Yelland said.
The use of cell phones in schools is a constant battle between
adults and youth. The announcement at the start of this story
is an example of how cell phones are being regulated at schools.
Under the MAPS district rules, cell phones are not to be
used during school hours and are to be kept in student’s
lockers when at school.
Mickey Sanders, fifteen, of Marquette, thinks that this should
change.
“
I think we should be able to use them at lunch…as long
as you’re not using them during class…but in between
classes and at lunch you should be able to use them,” He
said.
Some kids feel differently. Kaitlyn Riesland, fourteen, of
Marquette, believes that rules on cell phones at school prepares
them for
rules they may have to follow in their future work place.
“
I think that cell phones shouldn’t be allowed at movies
and at school, or at workplaces because it cuts into your business
time,” she said.
Dan Gannon, the assistant principal of Bothwell Middle School
in Marquette, explains the punishment for cell phone use
at school.
“
We see it, we take it away,” he said. “I actually
have a list in my office. I’ve got about 15 or 16 names
right now, I take them until the end of the day and then they
get them from me when they leave. That’s the first
time.
Second time, I hang onto it and a parent has to come in and
pick it up and I talk to the parents at the time and I tell
them that
if I get it a third time they don’t get it back until the
end of the school year. So it three strikes and you’re
out.”
While Gannon has to deal with youth and cell phones as assistant
principal, he also is a parent of two teenagers––one
of which has a cell phone. His fifteen-year-old son got a cell
phone last January. His phone is on a plan with no texting and
limited minutes shared with his parents. According to Gannon,
if his son goes over his limit he has to pay for his minutes.
Meanwhile, his younger son doesn’t get a cell phone
until he is fifteen, if he needs one, he borrows his parents.
Jameson also keeps a close eye on how her two teenage kids
use their phones.
“
I monitor their use by looking at the bill every month to see
what time they’re calling, who they’re calling, that
type of thing,” she said. “I know they’re not
using them during school and at night they plug them in in the
kitchen so I know they’re not using them at night when
they go to bed.”
Riesland has rules on how she can use her cell phone. Her
parents let her use it until 9:00 at night and she can only
use a certain
amount of minutes every month. After her minutes are used
up she can’t use her cell phone any more.
Most parents don’t like their children talking or texting
on their cell phones while driving. Most kids agreed that
young drivers can be distracted by using their cell phone
while on
the road.
Sanders said that he has been in some scary situations.
“
Definitely, I mean I’ve been riding with friends and they’ve
been texting and I’ve taken over and started driving for
them because I just don’t feel safe,” he said.
Yelland agreed that cell phones and cars can be a dangerous
combination.
“
It can be kind of dangerous for you and for anyone else around
you because you could be paying more attention to who you are
talking to than what you’re doing at the moment––so
you could have a major accident,” he said.
What are some pet peeves that people have about cell phone
use? Driving while using a cell phone is what annoys Kelly
Tyburski
the most.
“
My biggest pet peeve is people driving and using their cell phones
at the same time because I think their concentration is more
on their phone call than on their driving,” she said. “It’s
the same thing as trying to tune your radio station while you’re
driving––you should be driving.”
Kyle Tyburski doesn’t want your phone to ring in a
movie theater.
“
I don’t like it when they have them at the movies because
when people are trying to watch a movie and it starts going off
it’s really annoying when they’re talking,” he
said.
Riesland agrees that a movie theater is the worse place to
use a cell phone.
“
Yes, I have a pet peeve about people using cell phones in movie
theaters because when you’re sitting there and somebody
else is talking on their cell phone behind you it can get really
annoying after a while,” she said.
Jameson, meanwhile, has a gripe related to cell phone use
that most young people do not share.
“
I do think it’s rude when you’re with someone and
then their phone rings and they start talking,” she
said.
As cell phones become more popular, we will have to confront
the ways people use them and how and where people use them.
With a younger generation that is more dependent on cell
phones, and
with new technology being developed ever year, who knows
where the issue could go next.
–– 8-18 Media